When a person is suffering from alcoholism, an intervention can play a life-changing moment in that person’s life. The response can be defined as the conversation between the alcoholic and his\her loved ones.
It can be challenging for you to approach someone you love and tell him\her and talk about the addiction they have, but it is necessary. The goal of the intervention is to make the alcoholic realize how he\she is affecting his\her own life and the people around them. Mediation can be a way to make an alcoholic realize the problem without hurting the feelings, and if it goes well, then it can be a life-changing moment in a constructive way.
Staging an intervention can be a complicated process, and there is also a chance that you might be doing it for the first time, but that should be no reason to get afraid and not doing it. You can also take the help of a professional for setting up intervention if you do not know how to do it.
You can set up an intervention by following these simple steps:
Make a plan
The best way to make a plan for response is by taking the help from a professional that can be qualified counsellor, an addiction expert, a mental health counsellor, a social worker or an interventionist.
Now you have to gather the information about the alcoholic like what kind of problem he\she is having, a reason for having the desire to drink. Research about the conditions and the treatment programs to be enrolled for. You can also join in advance for the alcoholic.
Form an intervention group
Planning a group for intervention is an essential part. You have to find out all the vital people in the life of an addict and ask them for help. You have to make them realize it is for the good of that addict. They should not feel guilty for going behind the his\her back.
You have to keep the following things in mind while forming an intervention group:
• It should be a small group of 4-6 people.
• Not to include a person who might sabotage the intervention.
• Not to include a person who is disliked by the alcoholic
Time and place
Deciding the time and place for the response is also essential. You should not confront the alcoholic in a public place or the favourite bar.
Time is also essential as you should not confront the addict when he\she is drunk. If you face the alcoholic when he\she is drunk, then there are chances of taking the whole thing in the wrong way by the alcoholic. It could get even worse like an alcoholic might not remember the conversation.
Intervention is a delicate event; even a minor error can escalate thing very quickly. Single wrong word at the wrong time can be the reason for the failure of the intervention. So you have to practise the script before interference with all the member of the group. This might feel like you are cheating with that person, but you have to see the bigger picture here.
Decide the consequences
You have to decide before the intervention that if the alcoholic does not accept the problem and does not agree to take treatment at the rehabilitation centre, then what to do. For example, you could ask the alcoholic to move out.
Hold an intervention
Intervention should be a surprise to the alcoholic so that he\she would not be ready to escape the conversation by giving some excuse. Members of the group should express their feeling and concern. You also have to keep in mind to never threaten the alcoholic during the intervention; otherwise, he\she could take it in a wrong way, and all your efforts will be in vain.